Do you really want to be a manager?

Not everyone should be a manager. More people need to say that out loud.

We think moving up means moving into management. Organizational leaders assume the only way to promote someone is to give them people to manage. Early career professionals assume it is the only path to advancement and higher pay.

One of the worst, most draining mistakes you can make is stepping into management when you are meant to be a strong individual contributor.

Management means putting down your craft to lead people and develop the next generation. Being an individual contributor means building deep expertise. Both paths are valuable. Both are needed. You have to know which one fits you.

Management brings its own stress: hard decisions, hard conversations, and responsibilities you can’t just check off. But the reward of helping others grow is real.

Some people thrive as specialized individual contributors. They become highly valued and well paid, without managing a team.

Success comes in many forms. Pick the one that fits you.

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  • Building the plane while you fly it

    Sometimes, “building the plane while you fly it” is unavoidable. You just have to take off, move fast, and figure it out on the way.

    But here’s the real question: Are you building the plane with duct tape or rivets?

    Too often, “building the plane as we fly it” becomes an excuse to cut corners. “Just get it done. We’ll fix it later.” But later rarely comes and temporary becomes permanent. And you’re left flying a patched-together machine at 30,000 feet.

    Yes, getting thrown in the deep end can be a great way to grow. But what if you used the chaos to take a beat and build something that lasts?

    Even in the rush, you usually have a choice.

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  • Use an organizational scorecard to predict the future

    Over the last few months, we’ve implemented something new across our leadership team: an organizational scorecard. It’s a simple idea, but it’s already changing how we operate.

    Each week, our department VPs and I review and update a simple matrix of the organization’s most important metrics – the drivers that tell us whether we’re on track or not. We look at things like membership growth, events, fundraising, employee happiness, and a few other criteria. Nothing too complicated. Just a single, living scorecard that we update every week and apply an “on track” or “off track” label.

    The purpose of a scorecard isn’t to add more reporting. It’s to keep the most vital indicators front and center. When you track these weekly, you can effectively predict the future. You start to see problems before they happen.

  • Get to the point

    Ever look up a recipe and find a short novel before the recipe itself?

    Or maybe you received an email from someone, and after three paragraphs, you still don’t know what they want.

    Maybe it’s a report or memo that buries the top line info in fluff and filler.

    One of the best ways to get a response, earn respect, and win is by getting to the point.

    It doesn’t mean being cold – you’re still a human communicating with another human, so respect is a must. It means being concise and clear.

    Say what you mean and say it early.

  • How to help Texas flood recovery efforts

    Today’s post is simple – please help the victims and communities affected by the devastating flooding in Texas over the Fourth of July weekend. As of this post, the death toll is now over 80 people, and 10 young campers remain missing.

    You can donate here.

    Every dollar helps.

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  • Personal systems take time

    One of the most common issues I see in management, especially with early-career employees, is a struggle to stay organized and manage time well.

    I have empathy for it because I was the same way. In college and my early career, I bounced between to-do apps, note-taking systems, project management tools, paper journals, and weekly planning templates. It wasn’t until my late 20s that I landed on a system that not only worked, but that I could actually stick to.

    Personal systems take time to develop. And they should be deeply personal. You can’t just adopt someone else’s setup and expect it to work without modification. Everyone’s wired differently. What clicks for me might drive you crazy – and vice versa.

    When we talk about personal systems, we often think of task lists and calendars. But it’s broader than that:

    • Macro tracking for fitness or nutrition
    • Personal reviews and reflections
    • Goal tracking
    • Morning routines or end-of-day resets

    All of these systems help us stay on track, but ask anyone who uses one and they’ll tell you they are tough to master. Good systems take time to create and refine, and they should make your life easier, not harder. If you’re constantly fighting to maintain it, it’s the wrong one.

    If you’re still figuring it out, be patient. Experiment, reflect, and adjust as needed. The goal isn’t to get it perfect; it’s to get something that helps you show up for yourself and others consistently.

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  • You’re not that unique

    Neither is your organization. I know that’s really hard to hear or accept.

    You’re not so unique that the basics of leadership, systems, and clarity don’t apply to you.

    You’re not so unique that you just happen to attract bad hires. Maybe you have weak management.

    You’re not so unique that setting clear goals, building a healthy culture, and creating clarity somehow aren’t “your thing.”

    Saying you’re unique is convenient. It’s a way to avoid change, sidestep responsibility, and ignore the hard truths every other leader eventually has to face.

    The good news is, you’re not alone. But you’re not exempt either.

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